Thursday, February 5, 2009

A Poem from Ben

As I mentioned in the previous post, my birthday and those of my two youngest children fall within a few days of each other, in the first few days of the new year. It was a busy time here in December and January! Ben is still nursing and wakes up during the night - my other kids were never this hard to get to sleep through the night. I have been overwhelmed at times with being tired and keeping up with all of Ben's appointments and the other kids' activities. My mom just recently gave me a belated birthday present - a beautiful small statue of a mother and her son embracing - it's called Child's Touch. I love it, but the best part was the card that came with it. Apparently, the gift was from Ben - and included in the card was a poem that my mom wrote for me - "from Ben." It was one of the most touching and thoughtful gifts I've ever received and I wanted to share it. Thank you, Mom!

Dear Mommy,

This birthday present comes to you late,
But to get the right gift, I just had to wait.

Together we shared a most wonderful year
Filled with wonder and joy and you always near.

Always together, almost never apart
Nursing and sleeping close to your heart.

Days and nights you had little rest,
(But Mom, sleeping with you is really the best)!

In silence I grew, no sounds did I hear
But in your loving arms, I never felt fear.

Instead every day I learned something new
From you and Dad, and all the kids, too.

You and Dad, Abby, Sam, Grace and Ella
What a great family for this little fella!

While you struggled with work that never got done
You filled my days with laughter and fun.

And after months of research to learn what was new
You decided on therapy .... and implants, too.

So thank you mom for all you have done
And for helping me hear before I was one.

Your loving son,
Ben

3 comments:

PolyglotMom said...

How sweet! Someday he will say it to you too... made me cry!

tammy said...

Okay ... I went from Drew's "weeenah" story to this and now I have tears! That was absolutely beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

PS - Aiden still does not sleep through the night either! He's up at least twice for a bottle and with the second one, he has to stay in bed with me or he freaks! My older two slept through the night from 8 weeks on!

Anonymous said...

I have been following your blog because our daughter Priya was born with profound loss and had her first implant in October and second in December. She is now 14 months. It has been so helpful to relate to a family who is going through the same thing.